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  • Advice Regarding Islam And Life

    Posted by Muhammad Raheel on May 21, 2025 at 10:58 am

    Ever since I started to learn my religion a lot my life has since complicated and I have a leisure activity that I used to do.

    Why do I feel life as complicated?

    I have people around me that don’t follow islam like too religiously so they don’t know many rulings. They do many things that are sin. This can make one feel left out.

    These people also used to do sins that are bad so I left some of them as close friends to acquaintance but sometime ago I left socially left out and don’t know what to do now? I used to have fun but now life is repetitive boring full of waswas.

    Don’t take this as a complaints but please tell any advice suggestions or any thing from islam that can help me. Thank you

    Dr. Irfan Shahzad replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago 2 Members · 3 Replies
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  • Advice Regarding Islam And Life

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar May 21, 2025 at 7:52 pm

    Religion does not require you to give up friendships or joy. It seems you’ve become overly consumed by religious strictness. Other people’s sins are your concern. Learn to appreciate people and live harmoniously among them.

  • Muhammad Raheel

    Member May 22, 2025 at 12:04 am

    People around me backbiting sometimes and I get confused whether i am backbiting whenever I am talking about someone close.

    Isn’t making friends that do bads things a sin?

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar May 22, 2025 at 12:53 am

    It happens in every relationship. One way to avoid this is to end up with all relationships. This is asceticism or Rehbaniat, which is forbidden in Islam. Rehbaniyat leads to avoiding the test, God has put us in. Our test is to keep the relations and keep our moral self up, and if we commit a mistake, we should correct it.

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