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Husband Divorcing Wife Witwithout Even Giving Proper Chance Of Reconcilation
Assalamu alaikum, my husband left for Germany and promised me that he will ve back in 2years. Before our marriage we he knew that settiling outside of the country is not accepted to me. (it was NOT in nikah nama. But was known to him).
Yet he choose to go to Germany as he had to payback his fathers loan. Before going it was a oral promise from him that he will be back in 2years. Long story short he statrted to avoid me gradually and I also felt fedup. One day I could not take it any more and gave him a heated message. He disconnected all the conbections with me and after 3 months suddenly gave me a divorce letter. Bfire sendibg it neither he tried to talk to me and shared with me a reason properly. So I didn’t get the chances of reconcilation that as per quran are the pre steps of divorce. Even after sending the paper flew away agai. to Germany and did not even bother to pick my call. As a family we tried a lot for reconciliation his parnets insulted me and lied about me. Even before planning this divorce he shared half truth about me with his friend circles in such a way that nobody helped me. He didn’t tell them that his promise was to come back. Rather told everyone the half story.If he discussed these with me instead of them I could try to resolve them. Whatever reason he had ne never shared with me properly.
Now, isn’t it using me in his insolvent time and tgrowing me away in his solvency? I had to sacrifice a lot due to their loan and waited 6 years for thid day of financial solvency. And the moment he got this he forgot my sacrifices. Whatever reason he had divorcing me in such a way isn’t it betrayal to my trust? My father entrusted me with him. Isn’t it treachery to that amanah?
In worldly law he doesn’t need to provide justication but to Allah can I ask for justice and their punishment for breaking my trust and harming me and my family in such a way that we perhaps did not deserve? I cannot forgive my ex husband his father, his mother and other people who were related to this. I trusted this man, I ensured me he will be back several times. Yet he gave me no chance to reconciliation.
There is no way to proove emotional scars to anyone but Allah can see them .
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Husband Divorcing Wife Witwithout Even Giving Proper Chance Of Reconcilation
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