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    Halala And Remarriage To First Husband

    Posted by Ayesha on October 15, 2025 at 4:04 am

    Hi I am writing to enquire about my divorce and the process on remarrying my ex husband.

    So my husband had a disturbed childhood due to being from broken family and is having some personality disorders. I was also very egoistic. We had a love marriage and had a daughter together who will be turning 3 soon. We started having some serious disagreements and fights due to bad involvement of families from both sides also I have noticed that his interest in me was declining day by day and got him cheating with other women. So given all this I thought to take a stand and started living seperately so just he can realise the importance of family but he out of rage gave me divorce by saying 3 times talaaq in presence of 2 family members. Soon after he regretted the decision and asked for reconciliation but still issues persisted and I had a dream of Hazrat Khizer guiding me to part ways from him so considering it as a sign I moved to another city and he started sending me divorce papers with the gap of each month I received 3 written divorces and he accepted that he intended to give me 3 divorce.

    Soon after divorce we both started regretting the decision as our lives have disturbed a lot there is no any support in any terms from my family. This was my second marriage so the family has withdrawn their support entirely. I am living alone all on my own. I am bearing all responsibilities for my child and feeling exhausted. There is no social and emotional support. It’s nearly been a year but I am still not over him. He is always on my nerves. I am so emotionally attached to my ex husband that I can’t even think of moving on with another man especially given my daughter I can’t trust anyone else.

    I have researched halala is not encouraged and is indeed prohibited but what if it’s the case like ours where child’s life is compromised and I can’t get over him. I am praying tahajjud doing all tasbeehat. I am full time working so finance is not the issue for me atm. But during this year I have learnt my lessons I know where I went wrong. I always ask Allah to help me forget him and make it easy for me but still always thinking about him.

    Can you please guide me that what can be done in this situation?

    Umer replied 7 hours, 18 minutes ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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