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What Is Qina (Hasad, Bughz And Jealousy)
I have listened that a person who got (Qina) in their heart won’t enter in paradise,,,
I want to know what in actual context Qina is
Like a human can’t suppress the emotions fully
One do hate one do love,
I want to know it’s impossible to not to hate someone and yet wanting good for them,
A person do hate someone after a certain incident happened in their lives,
Hatred in itself is created when a person want to destroy a thing from which they hate,,,,
A person can never stay harmless when the whole world is so creul to treat them with,
I’m not talking abt crushing inoccents with the urge within a person,
But isn’t it’s sometimes revenge which make people move forward
Or even if it’s not,
One always get a urge which make gen move forward
That can be urge to go to paradise or to please Allah,
Or to stop injustice,
That probably is abt protecting inoccents but it can’t be done when one won’t take actions against transgressors and tyrants or the enemies
Ofc if someone comes in a way of someone doin right,
Is there enemy,
I know everyone says it’s preferred to not to take enmity to that extent
But brother I’m always not asking abt preferred but I’m asking abt if it is something Allah can be displeased with,,,
As human beings we all know from our hearts and from our minds too that what’s preferred but the confusion arise when we think about what’s an order,,
Kindly clear my confusion
And plz tell me abt ghamdi SB point of view upon it,
I’m not talking abt cutting off ties with blood relations ,
I’m talking abt limiting oneself from other not to cut ties when a person won’t even say hello when they meet,
But that’s abt blood relations and family
Does the same goes to normal people you meet,?
Kindly help me out with this big confusion,
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What Is Qina (Hasad, Bughz And Jealousy)
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Kindly ask your questions in a brief and objective manner in accordance with Ask Ghamidi Code of Conduct.
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For general discussion on Jealousy, please watch:
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For advice on How to overcome jealousy, please watch:
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No it’s not abt jealousy it’s abt having hatred and I’ll feelings towards a certain person ,
That is normal,, as we all are humans
So upper in question I was asking abt orders from Allah upon it not abt preferred things,
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Yes there can be circumstances where we hate someone because of some atrocity committed by them against a specific person or persons. Even Islam allows Muslims to take equal revenge against any oppression however forgiveness is recommended. But if one has a feeling of hatred for someone because of some genuine ethical reason, then there is no blame on the person. However, there should be no injustice done by us and we should not commit any unethical act against the other person. What is prohibited is haveing any ill feeling against another person when there is no ethical basis available for it, for example, when one starts having hatred or ill feelings against another person because of their success or because of our own liking/disliking etc.
Please also refer to the video below from 11:20 to 13:18
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Yes jazakallah brother for clearing it out,,,
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Please reply to the thread of “is wearing unisex cloths halal” there’s another question,,
Jazakallah
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