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  • Living In Parents’S House For The Sake Of Ease While Looking For Better Work

    Posted by Amin Ansar on September 23, 2024 at 5:23 am

    Although, I can go outside and find work, I am living in my parents’ house to find better opportunities online (freelancing) that will give me more wealth and ease. If I go outside to find work, that will be difficult and with less pay and it will be difficult for me to continue looking for online work because I will not have much time. I also have ptsd and ocd which are making it difficult to even work at home and I am afraid it would be even more painful to work outside.

    But I am afraid I might be doing something wrong and I am just making excuses and I shouldn’t be a burden on my parents just for the sake of ease. I do feel like I am close to finding work online. What should I do?

    Saad replied 9 months, 1 week ago 3 Members · 3 Replies
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  • Living In Parents’S House For The Sake Of Ease While Looking For Better Work

    Saad updated 9 months, 1 week ago 3 Members · 3 Replies
  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar September 23, 2024 at 8:36 pm

    This is not a religious problem. Parents support their children and children take care of them. This is a mutual understanding.

    • Amin Ansar

      Member September 24, 2024 at 5:19 am

      I am 26 year old man now. That’s what makes me feel kind of ashamed and I am afraid it might be bad from religious point of view also

    • Saad

      Contributor September 24, 2024 at 5:24 am

      Religious point of view is that family exists for the need of human. Not only they are born in the care of their parents but also have support of their siblings, uncles, aunt, cousins, grandparents and grandchildren.

      It is the deviation of West that preaches an idea that one should be independent and shames people for depending on their families. But this is against human fitrah.

      Children depend on parents as long as they need and then parents will depend on children as long as they need. This is the system.

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