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Arrogance /Pride Or A Fair Choice To Make Friends?
I recognize that I am an ordinary human being and not above or below others. And that those who have less wealth, attractiveness, intelligence etc. are so because God has made them so and being like that doesn’t make them inferior to me.
But when it comes to making friends, things change for me. I fear it might be arrogance that I am not becoming friends with someone because of their personality (the way they talk, walk, or wear clothes) and their sense of cleanliness. Also, because they act weirdly. I understand people have weaknesses but I don’t want to become friends with people with certain weaknesses.
As an example, there is someone who is mentally ill, he could have a good character to the extent he can have but I still avoid becoming friends with him for some reason. There is also that fear of embarrassment that what others will think of me when they see me with him. I let go of this fear of embarrassment because it feels wrong to me. But I still don’t want to become friends with him, how do I make sure it is not arrogance or pride inside me but I also don’t want to risk becoming friends with someone my heart doesn’t want to.
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Arrogance /Pride Or A Fair Choice To Make Friends?
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This is not arrogance. This is incompatibility. This is not a sin.
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