Aslamoelikum, I am living in Saudia

One day me and wife discussing about talaq and she said gusa main talaq ho jati and 3 dafa bolo tu ho jati ha I Said nae hoti senses main talaq deni hoti ha aur 3 dafa 1000 dafa bolney sey b eik he talaq hoti , I said na mazaq main hoti ha na guza main hoti, then she said ager nae hoti mazaq main ap b dey do phir mazaq main he, I Said OK pr yeh mazaq ha then I say 1 2 3 10 times and 1000 times and I said this is not talaq it’s just mazak we were smiling and laughing, in next days she be like apney tu talaq de hui ha and I Said no, you know that it was mazaq, we still have the relationship but she teased me with that you gave me talaq so marry another girl. After some days she said tell your family that you gave me divorce or should I tell them. I said you know that it was joke not my attention and we are still in relationship. If you think it’s talaq then why we are still in relationship and why I should tell them as they are old and they will be worried for nothing. Now after about 3 months she remind me of past fights that when you were angry and we fought and she demanded for divorce and I also threaten her for divorce but I control and did not say the words and this last time I ask for divorce even we were not serious then why you said the words you should have controlled and not listen to me and should not said the words. She said last time you said so I take it as a talaq and I Said it was not intention and before saying the words you and me agreed that it was just mazaq. But now after 3 months due to less interaction and she also went to Pakistan for 40 days and because of family issues and the issue I did not care as much as I have to she decided to take last mazaq as serious. Now I said if you take that serious than I again roju with you and try to solve and she now said it’s late and she need 1 month to think about it.

Question 1: keya waqae he talaq ho ge the.

Question 2: ager ho ge the tu us k bad jo relationship Tha uska kafara Dena ho ga. Aur roju kr sakten hain

Question 3: ager talaq nae hui tu jo Allah k hukam k sath aur es important rishtay k sath hameny na samji main mazaq main talaq wala incident keya es pr koe kafara Dena parey.

Question 4: es incident ko 3 months ho jukey hain aur ap last 40 days sey we don’t have relationship as she was in Pakistan. Now she came and did not want to live with me and took that incident serious and I want to live with her but she said for roju she needs 1 month and after that month If she said she don’t want to live with me then what I can do and even if she said roju ka time khatam ho geya now I don’t want to live with you beside you want to live with me.

Sorry for long question.