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  • Huqooq Ul Ibad And It’S Impact On Hereafter

    Posted by M Nofal on January 15, 2025 at 7:49 pm

    Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh,

    I would like to seek guidance on a matter involving huqooq-ul-ibad and its impact on the Hereafter. A girl was engaged to a man through family arrangements. Over time, they became emotionally close and were planning to marry after completing their studies. However, she later moved abroad for higher education and met another man( Class fellow) they became friends and later on her purposed her, Initially, she rejected his proposal, but with time, she developed feelings for him and eventually distanced herself from her fiancé.

    When the fiancé learned about her relationship, he expressed that he would never forgive her. She now feels immense guilt, knowing her actions may have hurt him deeply. Both she and the other man acknowledge that her actions were wrong from an Islamic perspective, but they are now in a committed relationship and intend to make it halal. But he knows he can’t keep her happy with this guilt in her life.

    The question is: If she denies her relationship with the second man she met abroad, to her family and seeks forgiveness from her fiancé, and Allah will this absolve her of the sin and allow her to live a guilt-free and righteous life? The second man loves her deeply but is more concerned about her Hereafter than their relationship in this world.

    Jazakum Allahu Khairan for your guidance.

    Dr. Irfan Shahzad replied 5 days, 1 hour ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • Huqooq Ul Ibad And It’S Impact On Hereafter

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar January 15, 2025 at 11:35 pm

    We know, that even after marriage, a man can divorce her wife and the wife can take Khula. That was an engagement in the cited case, which was supposed to culminate into marriage. Now, if any partner changes his or her mind, they are allowed to marry the one they want to. Marriage is the most delicate matter, and one should marry where one wants to. This is not a sale purchase agreement. One can revoke one’s consent at any point in time. However, one should inform the other party well before time.

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