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Problem
If my parents force me to wear abaya ….though it’s not compulsory…and I know that abaya and hijab are no where in islam ….and abaya somehow represents conservativeness ….what should I do ?
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Problem
updated 4 months, 2 weeks ago
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Talk to them and convince them in a respectful manner.
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Sir whenever I try to convince them my mom beats me and say to me that I’m not a good Muslim I am a girl who promotes fawahish by not wearing abaya …. She says me that Allah will send me into the hell fire …and he will punish me because because I don’t obey my mother’s order or wearing abaya …and sometimes she says me that Allah will punish you in the qabar ….for not wearing abaya and hijab and niqab… because a Muslim girl covers her face …sir these things show conservativeness in modern era ….with these things how could we collaborate with modern world …sir I tried to convince them but they said to me that I didn’t know anything about islam I am 18 years old girl ….sir will Allah punish me for disobeying them ? In the case of abaya ?
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And my mom also beats me when ever I make hair bun (jora) under hijab …she says that it’s the symbol of people of hell …..and she curse me ….for doing this…as I know I’m not doing anything bad…..how overcome such pain …when my parents hurt me emotionally?
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It is not about being compatible with the modern era or not. It is about following the right directives is religion whatever they are.
There is no compulsion of face covering or wearing abaya. God has obliged man and woman to wear decent and modest dress only. See the verse 24:31.
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Sir read my second ask completely and will Allah punish me for disobeying my parents in the case or not wearing the abaya
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This is the area of your personal choice and the parents are not entitled to violated it. In this case the parents can be answerable for violating their limits, not you.
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