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  • Nikah With A Guy Who Cannot Announce Our Nikah Publicly

    Posted by Ayesha Ayesha on April 11, 2025 at 2:00 am

    I want to do Nikah with a guy who cannot announce our Nikah publicly. I’ve already talked to my parents, and they have no issue with this’s, I will announce the Nikah to my friends and relatives from my side. Also, I don’t live in Pakistan, so it’s not possible for my parents to be physically present at the Nikah.Will my Nikah be valid?

    Dr. Irfan Shahzad replied 3 days, 12 hours ago 3 Members · 5 Replies
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  • Nikah With A Guy Who Cannot Announce Our Nikah Publicly

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar April 11, 2025 at 6:39 am

    Nikah means that a man and a woman would live together as husband and wife and it should be a declared fact. In your condition, it is valid because a good number of people know it. Physical presence of the parents of guardian is not required.

    • Ayesha Ayesha

      Member April 11, 2025 at 8:53 pm

      The issue is that the guy is already married, He lives in another country, so it’s not even possible for us to live together.If I marry him, will this nikah be valid?

  • Ayesha Ayesha

    Member April 11, 2025 at 9:04 pm

    The nikah will be secret from his side, but on my side, I will announce the marriage to everyone in my circle.

    • Yaver Javid

      Member April 12, 2025 at 1:38 am

      If his wife isn’t happy with marriage, think for a while.

      If the separation is indefinite or very long sister, I hope you know the consequences of this. You will have to fight against you own self in all ways. This could be destructive to your mental health and religion. You will have to fight against your desires. And also think about her life too.


      Sometimes love can take over your mind. Be aware and think a little. Maybe wait sometime and try to see the reality more clearly and with a fresh mind.

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar April 13, 2025 at 1:45 am

    In that case it is deception. The nikah will be valid but with an intention of deception.

    Such marriages cause big problems. If the boy has no courage to disclose his second marriage he should not marry another girl.

    He should annouced his second marriage, or decide to leave one and take the other.

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