It is a very sensitive topic, there is no specific text (nass) to deem it haram, however it is disliked due to multiple factors.
Many of the jurists deemed it permissible.
I would advise you to go through this article and apply which suits you best.
This also has a section on the aforementioned topic.
Reminder: This article is written from the perspective of Traditional scholars.
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Etiquette of intimate relations
Article Contents 1. No shyness in asking the question regarding religion. -Imam ad-Darami narrated a) Abdul Mannan Raasikh said, which means: 2. Is it p