I saw a video of Ghamidi sb about Taqdeer and he mentioned few things about baby being born is already decided or written. Such as when and where the baby will be born, who will be the parents. Same in Quran Allah mentioned about Ehad e Aslat. My understanding is that Ehad e Aslat is also a proof that every soul being born is already decided. So question is if it is already decided that where will be the baby born and who will be the parents then a man and a woman getting married is already decided? since the specific soul will be born through already decided man and woman? Does any effort from parents about conceiving or not planning to have a baby matters? since it’s already decided?