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How To Deal With Huqooq Al-Ibad When I Wronged Someone Emotionally?
I need your guidance. About 3 years ago, I entered into a relationship after expressing the intention of marriage, but was asked to wait. Over time I grew insecure as I couldn’t see it progressing and the other person remained in touch with past connections. I ended up disrespecting boundaries, pursuing further contact, and speaking against their character. After we ended, I tried reaching out several times, sometimes wrongly, sometimes to say sorry, sometimes to ask to meet for one last time. They blocked me repeatedly, but I kept creating new accounts to reach out. For the last 6+ months, I’ve stopped contact. I regret it deeply and fear I violated their Huqooq al-‘Ibad. What is the correct way to deal with this situation?
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How To Deal With Huqooq Al-Ibad When I Wronged Someone Emotionally?
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If contact is possible, either directly or indirectly, then convey your sincere apologies and the fact that you realize your mistake. If contact is not possible at all, then keep asking forgiveness from Allah and keep praying for that person. If you are in a position to do some good in their favour, then you should do it. Hopefully Allah will see your good intentions, your sincere attempts to ask forgiveness from them and your improved character and he will hopefully find a way for you so that other person also forgives you if she hasn’t already in this world.
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Videos in the following thread are helpful in general understanding of seeking forgiveness regarding violations of Haqooq-ul-ibad:
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