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Marraige. Tohmat
Assalam O Alaikum sir,
Meri shadi ko ek sal ho gya ha or ye arranged marriage thi out of family and out of cast mere husbnd bht achy hain or susral b or hum dono e ek dosray se bht muhabat krty hain… 7 mah pehly mere bhai ki shadi hoi or bhabhi family se hain but door k rishta dar hain or bhai saudia chly gye ek mah bad ab meri bhabhi bhai se divorce chahti hain khuch personal issues ki waja se pr unho ne ye bat humain directly ni kahi na e unk ghar waly is bat pe aty hain k unko divorce chahye ye bat unho ne mere susral main ki or mj pe bht tohmatain lgai k mera ghar b khrab ho jb k Allah janta ha in bato main koi sadakat nai… ALLAH ne mje olad se nawaza ha 40 days pehly but bhabhi ki lgai tohmaton ki waja se mere susral main or shohar k sath bht jhgry hoye hain or mere shohar ne in tohmaton ki bunyad pe mere maa baap or bhai ko bht zaleel kia or mje b or bht si aisi talkh batain kahi jo bhulai ni ja skti… Or sb susral walo ne humain galat jhoota or beizzat kia jb k again Allah janta ha in main koi sadakat nai… Mere susral main meri koi izzat ni rahi sb ne bht beizzat kia ha… Ab mje samjh ni aa ra k main kya krn… Main talak nahi laina chahti wapis b jana chahti hn pr meri mere susral main koi izzat e ni rahi or wo sb tohmato ko sach man rahy hain… Kya mje wapis jana chahye ya talak ly leni chahye kyn k kal ko ue sb batain wo mere bachy se krain gain to wo b izzat nahi kre ga… Sir please mje guide krain mje kya krna chahye main ghar basana chahti hn pr izzat k sath jo k ab mushkil ha…. Mje sahi guide krain. Shukria
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Marraige. Tohmat
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Wa’alaikum as salam. This question is of personal nature. If you’re seeking religious advice in this matter, please contact me via a private message and I will try to hook you up with a female scholar. But from the question it seems like you’re seeking more of a personal advice. In that case, someone from your family or a close friend who knows you, your in-laws, and your situation at a deeper level should be able to assist you better.
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I think you should go back because now you have child and the peaceful and safest place for a child is his own house. You need to talk to your husband realize him that you need respect as a wife and as a mother of his child but in my opinion you should not leave your house. You mentioned that your babhi is doing all these in this way she achieves her goal because of your foolishness. You are a good person your in laws will realize soon due to your good behavior. May Allah bless with happy and long life with your family Ameen
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