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  • Queries Regarding Getting Married

    Posted by Amara Khondekar on March 8, 2022 at 8:41 am

    I wish to get married this year. But I am scared.

    1. I don’t have brother so I am looking for a husband who is ready to keep my parents with us in their old age. Is that ok?

    2. Scholars say husband has right to say wife that she need not take care of sick parents. And wife should obey him

    3. Husband can ask you leave your job and don’t go out of the home. Lots of people say if a woman doesn’t have right to go out of home. How she can be given position of authorities

    4. Is there any condition my husband can tell me to break kinship with my parents

    Faraz Siddiqui replied 2 years, 9 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • Queries Regarding Getting Married

  • Faraz Siddiqui

    Member March 8, 2022 at 12:24 pm

    May Allah grant you a blissful marriage

    sister husband wife do not argue or do things based on religion but mutual understanding, care, partnership and respect.

    If u give love, care, support and give importance to the things dear to him and valued by him in his life, he will surely return the favor

    Demands put in before marriage r seldom held by both men and women because circumstances change. Don’t demand but see if there’s understanding or not.

    Marriages r not based on fatawas. There r very few things mentioned and that too in a very general way. Most of these kind of fatawas r opinions of scholars relative to their time and age.

    Religion doesn’t care if women work or stay home, it cares about being modest and fulfil your responsibilities as a wife. The responsibilities of a wife (or husband) is also not upto any scholar or fatawa but mutual understanding between 2 partners that r equal in status as human.

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