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Toxic Parents And Their Status In The Quran
Are toxic parents who beat their children and cause them severe life-long mental health issues considered wherever God mentions their status in the Quran? Good parents who were kind in their behavior definitely fit into the verses but those who are toxic, they don’t feel like they fit in. For example, God tells us to pray for our parents for the kindness they should in our upbringing but there is no kindness if the child develops mental health issues that destroys his life. There is only one thing that all parents do, which is to carry out their responsibilities of providing food etc. but it comes at the expense of toxicity with bad parents. God tells us to be grateful to them but how can one be grateful to toxic parents? It feels like one is being pushed to be grateful to them although gratefulness should come from the heart, I don’t understand this. It is causing mixed feelings and I being an emotional being can’t just forcefully make myself grateful to them or have respect or love for them in my heart, the only thing that can be done is to not hurt them or say anything bad to them and talk to them respectfully but with no emotions involved whatsoever
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