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Husn-e-akhlaq Ki Minimum Border
I want to understand the concept and limits of *husn-e-akhlaq* (good character and manners). Honestly, I’ve started losing interest in people — I don’t really feel like talking to them anymore. Many relatives, as you know, can be toxic or overly controlling. Sometimes even close family members are like that — father, uncle, grandfather, grandmother, aunt, mother, and so on.
So what should one do in such situations?I try to keep certain boundaries according to my nature — I don’t want to be disrespectful, but when they disrespect me, I lose the desire to talk to them. Is that okay?
If someone repeatedly behaves badly, is it still necessary to keep talking to them? Or is it enough to just greet them politely once in a while during the year?
I mean, with close relatives — if I maintain only minimal contact, would that be considered *qata-e-talluq* (cutting off ties)? Because their way of talking, the bad language, gossiping, and giving unnecessary opinions — and when I don’t do what they want, they get offended. But in that case, it’s not really my job to please them, right?
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