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    Posted by Mohammad Ibraheem on October 21, 2025 at 1:05 am

    Assalamualaikum!!! I have a Question to AskI’m Ultra Serious About this because it’s not just about meIt’s About My Akhirah and My Deen!!

    So The Problem I’m Facing Currently is that I Truly Love a Girl and She Loves me as well.. We Both Want to Marry Each Other as soon as possible because we want to keep things Halal… But The Problem is I Didn’t ever ask about her beliefs in IslamHer Situation is Kinda Messed Up.
    Like i thought she’s just an Ordinary Muslim like me… But She follows what her Elders Taught Her… She doesn’t Discover Stuff herself she blindly believes what elders say.. What her Mamu Says and What Her Father Says ..
    So She Says She hates Hazrat Umar Farooq (RA) and Also Hazrat Abu Bakar Sadeeq (RA)
    So I Said Are You Guys Shia and She Said Yes and No.. She said She Doesn’t Do That Matam Thing.. She Doesn’t go to Majlis on MuharramShe Also said that She Reads Quran And Hadith OnlyShe Doesn’t Believe anything else…
    But at the same time she hates whom Prophet (PBUH) (SAW) loved and Trusted
    She Says She’s Lover of Ehl-e-bayt But Why does she says it? She says Ehl-e-bayt is the family of Prophet PBUH SAW So That’s why she loves them But why does she always nominate this thing Like Every Muslim Does Love Them

    The Problem isI really do wanna marry her and she as well
    But the Problem
    Should I Marry Her…? I mean i want to but… Is it okay?? I’m trying to tell her truth but she denies saying no i don’t think so..

    So if we marry… Our Children? They’ll learn from mother and that isn’t ok…

    Kindly Guide Me With The Current Situation I Shall Be Very Thankful To You!!! Assalam-o-Alaikum!!!

    Mohammad Ibraheem replied 1 hour, 2 minutes ago 1 Member · 0 Replies
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