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Dealing With Parents When They Resist Their Son From Going Abroad
Salam sir
Sir agr koi apnay mutalik koi dunavi faisla krna chata jesay mulk change krna purely apnay krchy pa.Lakin usky walid shb ussy ikhtalaf krrhy or usky badlay ma ussy naraz b horhy skht …. to kia krna chahiye…
Wo shks jo mulk change krna wo apni mental health or present business k liye ussy bht zarori or na guzir smjtaLakin usky walid shb ki narazgi mol leni prygiKia is situation ma walid ki narazgi Allah ki narazgi bnjati?
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Dealing With Parents When They Resist Their Son From Going Abroad
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والدین کے ساتھ حسن سلوک کا حکم دیا گیا ہے۔ ان کی ہر بات ماننا لازم نہیں کیا گیا۔ اب اس کا فیصلہ کرنا فرد کا کام ہے کہ اس کا کوئی اقدام والدین کے نقصان باعث ہے تو نہیں کرنا چاہیے، اور اگر یہ محض ضد ہے تو ان کی ہر بات ماننا واجب نہیں۔ ان کی ناراضی تب گناہ کا باعث بنتی ہے جو کوئی اخلاقی قدر پامال کی جائے۔
یہ معاملہ حکمت عملی سے طے کرنا کا ہے کہ کسی کا نقصان نہ ہو اور کوئی ناراض نہ ہو۔
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Parents have send him to study abroad but due to many financial problems ( that was not in son’s hands ) , he had to leave the university,,, but meanwhile he was developing online skills so Allah gave him rizq through that.
He feel what he earn, all get spend in the eruppean country he lives, he also feels he his mentally not feeling well due to home sickness
So he wants to go to pakistan so that he can be at ease and continues his work from there.
His father is saying no you should come back after papers ( it takes 8 years and around 20k euro and its hard for him to afford as well as he don’t feel he should give golden years of hus life in obtaining papers of a country that he won’t visit again ) and his father also says I invested this amount of money on you, why are you wasting it
That money was for education not getting nationality or settling abroad.
He feels he can go to pakistan and re invest what he earns there so he can scale up his business.
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This is not a religious problem. One should discuss and find a way out.
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