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  • Nikkah Without Parents Approval

    Posted by Muhammad Taimoor on March 25, 2025 at 12:55 am

    Assalamualaikum Sir… Sir I’m in a big dilemma… Sir please tell me what to do and what is best…Sir I’m 26 yrs old… I like a girl… From 5 yrs…I was trying to convince my parents…Sir first they said that they will look into it when appropriate time will come…Now they have completely refused to agree…I have been trying to convince them in a peaceful way but 5 yrs have passed…The parents of the girl were also waiting since 5 yrs…They rejected many proposals but my parents are doing this to me…sir they are threatening and emotionally blackmailing me that they will disconnec their relations with me and will never talk to me and see my face…Sir what should I do… Alhamdulillah I am settled…I am an army officer serving in CMH Rawalpindi…We are not allowed to share personal relations and identity but sir this is my resort….Sir should I ignore my parents and marry that girl… Kindly sir any advice

    Muhammad Taimoor replied 1 day, 12 hours ago 3 Members · 4 Replies
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  • Nikkah Without Parents Approval

    Muhammad Taimoor updated 1 day, 12 hours ago 3 Members · 4 Replies
  • Ahsan

    Moderator March 25, 2025 at 3:02 am

    please see @Irfan76 sb response here
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  • Ahsan

    Moderator March 25, 2025 at 3:03 am
  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar March 25, 2025 at 3:08 am

    You may need to know the status and limitations of the obedience of parents. You can listen to one of my audio here.

    https://youtu.be/aRRmMvZotJg?si=4GGyA95X2rACBRsv

  • Muhammad Taimoor

    Member March 26, 2025 at 3:27 pm

    Sir Kuch Samajh ni aa rahi… Ye to theek hai nikkah se aik khandan ka banna or baqi sab Jo ghamidi Saab ki video mein suna…Sir Lekin aap jantay nahi…Mere Ami Abu khud kehte hain k wo log achay hain…larki bhi achi hai…Lekin hamara Dil nahi manta…dhamkiyan dete hain…mujhe darr hai k Kahi na farmani na ho jaye…sir aap us larki or Meri mental condition ko nahi janty…Rukawat ban gaye hain parents…Sir ham dono ne apne nikkah k liye 5 saal paise save kiye… alhamdulillah I’m independent…Mein uska kharcha utha Sakta hu…Fauj ne mujhe Ghar bhi diya hai…har cheez hai …Uss larki k parents supportive hain bohat…Sir har cheez Sahi hai… Alhamdulillah I’m mature… alhamdulillah ham aik doosre ko understand karte hain…Aur 5 saal se apni tamam shetani khwahishat ko roka bhi hai…Har mumkin Koshish ki hai…Lekin parents ka ye kehna k Mera Dil ni manta … without any solid ground….I have solid reasons to marry her sir …Lekin Abu Rukawat ban rhy …Kya karun sir 😔

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