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  • Lowering Gaze

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar May 23, 2025 at 4:25 am

    Lowering your gaze means stopping inappropriate glances, prolonged staring, and scanning others with lust.

  • Abdullah Abbad

    Member June 17, 2026 at 11:48 am

    But if i like the women and I look at her in a appropriate way,but i look at her for a long period?

    Is sinful?is a major sin?

    Or is socialy not a best thing to do ?

    Of course i’m not staring at her private parts,but i look at her generally?

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar June 18, 2026 at 1:41 am

    Major sins are Shirk, adultery, and murder. Looking at someone, even with lust, is not a major sin, unless it leads to zina, although it is still a sin, but the categories should not be confused.

    It is not appropriate to look at someone with love. However, decency must be maintained.

  • Abdullah Abbad

    Member June 18, 2026 at 6:38 am

    But what if a have a crush on her?or i like her?

    Of course even I understand that staring is not something appropriate,socialy even if your intention is good.

    And Can i look at a women with which one am I in a relationship with or am I trying to get to know? Or look at a photo of her on social media and think how beautiful she is?

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar June 18, 2026 at 11:23 pm

    To have feelings of love or liking is natural, therefore not forbidden. The answer is already given.

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