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  • What Kind Of Equal Badla Can Be Taken When Your Lawfully Wedded Husband Denounce

    Posted by Parisha on December 18, 2025 at 2:29 pm

    What kind of badla can be taken if your lawfully wedded husband says shameful things about you, denounces you existance, beats you up and your mother. Threatens to kill you. Just to marry my own paternal whom i literally brought up and loved. Herself and her parents all lied and hid the affair for two years. Now he has left me hanging in the middle. My family is distressed. I pray for sabr but i cant leave all this unanswered. I want to ask why they did it. Why he looked over my sacrifices and love. Is this fair. Tribal society there is no police or FIr and i dont want to ruin my reputation. I watched following link and i am so confused because i am hurt agrieved so i just sit and he can continue doing yhis forever. https://youtu.be/-B5SmR86AHI?si=o3xDtPoA50tMmrUC

    Umer replied 8 months, 2 weeks ago 3 Members · 3 Replies
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  • What Kind Of Equal Badla Can Be Taken When Your Lawfully Wedded Husband Denounce

    Umer updated 8 months, 2 weeks ago 3 Members · 3 Replies
  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar December 18, 2025 at 10:50 pm

    You can take Khula and end this marriage, and then you can ruin his reputation, too.

    But keep in mind that not all wrongs meet their desired end, and therefore, there is the hereafter, where everyone will face the consequences of their wrong and right deeds.

    • Parisha

      Member December 19, 2025 at 2:29 am

      This is not inline with what Ghamidi sb said in the video. I want to meet Allah in the next world as momin. Clean and minimum faults. But my heart is burning now, I am trying to forget but there must be something I do in this world that he faces and people who betrayed me face. Khula is not the solution. Why does not he leave this girl and she can marry some other nice family and live her own life. I have already had a very difficult life with him. I dont want to stoop to his level. Is it possible that you may ask Ghamidi sb directly.

    • Umer

      Moderator December 20, 2025 at 1:49 am

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