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    Posted by Shaiq Shah on July 1, 2026 at 5:25 am

    sir my qn is in little detail:

    sir about 8 months ago a girl proposed me and she said she has fallen in love for me…initially i didnt accept her..i was seeing it haram etc..

    after gradually i came to know i am also falling in love for her…i dont know if you will judge me on this…but this is reality…

    and today is the case she is far away from me and either i weep for her or i remain sad throughout day…

    my qns are now;

    1)is this haram…i have done nothing but only i am in love with her.

    2)I have given her word that i will remain loyal to her…i dont know where i am going…wallahi i am not here to go against Allah..but i have no control on loving her…i am keeping myself away from getting physical…only is the case we love each other…where tears and tears fell from our eyes…what should i do

    Dr. Irfan Shahzad replied 3 weeks, 3 days ago 3 Members · 6 Replies
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  • Relationships

    Dr. Irfan Shahzad updated 3 weeks, 3 days ago 3 Members · 6 Replies
  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar July 2, 2026 at 11:54 pm

    To develop feelings of love for someone is not haram. It is only the indecency in the relationship that is forbidden.

  • Shaiq Shah

    Member July 3, 2026 at 12:37 am

    can you mention those rhings which make it forbidden

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar July 3, 2026 at 12:40 am

    Anything that is commonly recognized as indecent—such as sexual references in conversation, inappropriate touching, or similar conduct.

  • Ahsan Bin Ishrat

    Member July 3, 2026 at 5:52 am

    It would be better if you marry as soon as possible, but let me tell you one thing,it is also true and absolute natural that love happens again and again with anyone and everywhere.Love exists wherever certain factors come together.

    JazakAllah

  • Shaiq Shah

    Member July 3, 2026 at 10:14 am

    can we express love feelings during conversation….and according to Quran only relationships  with wives is halal…so why not its haram

  • Dr. Irfan Shahzad

    Scholar July 6, 2026 at 5:38 am

    Expression of love is not considered indecent. However, if you think it is indecent, so do not do it.

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