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Acts, Foreplays And Kinks Between Spouses
Are all types of foreplays, kinks etc between spouses halal if they both have agreed to a certain limit and there is a safe word just in case? And playful distress and playful pain , maybe touching genuine distress or pain but consensually etc? Are all these supposed to be decided by the spouses? Also , as I hold the opinion that masturbation is not haram, are all types of vibrators between us not haram to use too? What about vibrators that wouldn’t just vibrate her private part but literally go inside it? Please tell.
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Acts, Foreplays And Kinks Between Spouses
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There are little restrictions in this matter of sex.
Anal sex is forbidden because it directs to filth.
Masturbation is not forbidden.
The person decides what is zulm and zyadti and what is not.
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So , in this case , would using vibrators on her that literally go inside her, would not be haram? Not talking about anus by the way. Also , what if she receives marks that are more long lasting but it’s all still consensual? Like, something that leaves very good marks?
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Also , would there be a reward for both if this is consensual?
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The answer is already provided in the first response.
Within these broad parameters, you can determine what is good or bad, appropriate or inappropriate.
There is nothing inherently objectionable about something entering the body for the purpose of creating pleasure.
By “reward,” do you mean sawāb? If so, the reward is for those who confine themselves to their spouses.
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What about consumption of semen? In context of both ; with spouse and of oneself? And sleeping nude both ; with her and alone, with and without covers? Plz tell about all scenarios.
Also , a little bonus question, is reading erotic texts halal as the most it’d cause me to do is masturbation, which I already follow the opinion of that it’s not strictly haram? What about reading so with spouse? Thank you.
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Swallowing semen is against the sense of purity; the same is licking the private parts.
Again, you have to decide under these broader parameters.
You do not do anything filthy. What you think comes under the category of zulm should be avoided.
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Personally, I think ALL of these are either halal or slightly makruh (due to being against human fitrah) . Because there’s already a difference of opinion and secondly there’s no explicitly forbidding it . So, if I think it’s not haram , is it fine?
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