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  • A Moral Dilemma

    Posted by Waleed Ahmed on October 26, 2026 at 3:11 am

    Things happened between me and a woman 10 years elder. At the end I said things I shouldn’t have and she said 10x more things. My friends and parents got involved. She, her friend, my friends and my father devised a strategy to try and help me forget the whole matter. I didn’t. She wanted to move on and I had no option but to move on. My father also decided that it is for the better that we both act like nothing every happened.

    Now, when I do remember everything, I am ashamed at what I said and I am sure she must be too, but talking to each other is next level awkward, even for saying sorry.

    She is a mother, she has two children. I am ashamed.

    I believe, I wouldn’t have said these things if I wasn’t in a semi conscious state, it was love or hate I don’t know, but I would never have said such things.

    Also this semi conscious, erratic and foolish behaviour has destroyed my own personality infront of my own eyes.

    I don’t know what to do and where to put this matter.

    Waleed Ahmed replied 2 weeks, 2 days ago 1 Member · 2 Replies
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  • A Moral Dilemma

    Waleed Ahmed updated 2 weeks, 2 days ago 1 Member · 2 Replies
  • Waleed Ahmed

    Member October 26, 2026 at 3:13 am

    Both of us have never met and reside in different cities. All of it was online on whatsapp

  • Waleed Ahmed

    Member October 27, 2026 at 4:11 am

    Also, I never said anything uncivilised until she asked me to. By then she had already said a lot. But after that I also started matching her ace for ace

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