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Lying For Fun
Posted by A Hasan on August 7, 2020 at 4:16 pmCan we lie in jokes and in friends eg I steal his pen he asks do you have it I say no – of course I will give it back to him a few minutes but would that lie be allowed?
Faisal Haroon replied 4 years, 3 months ago 3 Members · 10 Replies -
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Lying For Fun
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Faisal Haroon
Moderator August 8, 2020 at 6:40 pmLying is wrong, no matter what the purpose.
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A Hasan
Contributor August 8, 2020 at 6:42 pmI asked the same question to Dr SS and he said if it is just light hearted joking it is allowed. What do you say?
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A Hasan
Contributor August 8, 2020 at 6:43 pmWe also lie when we tell jokes eg x and y walked into a bar
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Faisal Haroon
Moderator August 8, 2020 at 6:59 pmWhen we tell jokes or stories, the listener knows that it’s fiction – that’s not a lie. I can’t comment on how Dr. Saleem interpreted the question or his response, but I’m pretty certain that he would have responded in the same context to where you’re joking around with someone and the person knows that you’re joking.
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A Hasan
Contributor August 8, 2020 at 9:43 pmOh sorry I think I was unclear in the original post. I’m not stealing his pen to actually take it. I just take it for maybe 5 minutes as a joke and give it back. That was the lie I was talking about- like me telling him I don’t have it for those five minutes. This would be allowed right? @faisalharoon
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Faisal Haroon
Moderator August 8, 2020 at 10:20 pmIn my understanding lying is wrong no matter what the purpose. Even when one has to lie in order to save an innocent person’s life, lying still remains wrong but it can be justified. Similarly, when lying just as a light hearted game or to bug your friend for a few minutes, it can possibly be justified. However, it’s a slippery slope, so I would caution against it.
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A Hasan
Contributor August 8, 2020 at 10:21 pmSo if someone chose not to lie to save someone’s life would he be wrong?
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Faisal Haroon
Moderator August 8, 2020 at 10:27 pmI don’t think that there can be a generic answer to this as situations can vary greatly. The key is that whatever decision we make we have to make it consciously, knowing that we will have to justify it in front of God.
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Sameer Bhagwat
Contributor August 9, 2020 at 1:49 amIs deception wrong ? Is deception part of the lie spectrum ?
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Faisal Haroon
Moderator August 9, 2020 at 10:25 amYes.
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