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  • Intimate Discussion Before Marriage

    Posted by Mohammad lateef Wani on November 26, 2020 at 4:24 pm

    Assalaimuallaikum

    I am in a confusion whether we should have any kind of talk to my fiancee about our wedding night. i feel it would be difficult for me to open up all at once. so is there any ruling in Islam that we can have such talk to better our sex life. Keeping this thing in mind i have given gold worth lakhs to her and i have decided that i will give that gold as Mahr to her. Her family knows that and my family knows too, what remains to be done for us is Nikkah Ceremony.

    kindly help me in this case

    Faisal Haroon replied 3 years, 5 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • Intimate Discussion Before Marriage

  • Faisal Haroon

    Moderator November 26, 2020 at 10:57 pm

    In a marriage the husband bears full financial responsibility to provide for his family. Mehr is simply token money offered to the wife at the time of nikah in order to communicate husband’s goodwill in this matter. Regardless of how much money or gold you have offered your future wife, it has no bearing on your question.

    That said, you will have your entire life to discuss your intimate relationship with your wife. Why does it need to start before the nikah takes place?

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