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Distance From Relatives
I heard about the Hadith saying those people will be in Hell fire who do Kata Taluqi with their Relatives. I want to know of your relatives are toxic and you distance from them basically to have peace in your life. is it wrong? Does it come under kata taluqi?
Kindly explain what should we do in this scenario. When these toxic people become a hurdle in your peace
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Distance From Relatives
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These days good triats are also considered toxin in people. It will be better if you can define toxic people for better understanding.
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I think it is better to distant and be careful from the toxic relations, but don’t wait to help them if they are in need of help, and always make dua for them.
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Please refer to the video below from 41:12 to 50:13
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Please also refer to the video below from 40:57 to 49:57
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jaisa ke video me ghamidi sahab ne bayan kiya ke hazrat aisha ne 40 ghulam azaad kiye ,kis tarha se hame samajh nahi araha kya vo itnemaaldar thi?
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Ji Khaibar ki fatah kai baad sai halaat achay hogaye thaay aur uskai baad achay hotay gaye musalsal.
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ji bht shukria
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So What I get is that you should greet them whenever they meet and do good but if they are toxic you can have distance from them. Coz they are bringing chaos to your life. Right?
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Please further explain, if one family harm financially and lively hood of another family, for our own good, shouldn’t we stay away from them?
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All such values are described as a general principle keeping in mind the normal circumstances that humans usually face. Exceptions are never discussed when describing principles in general. Therefore, as a general principle, what is being taught here is that in matters of familial relationships, never let your ego destroy the basis of your relationship; you’re free to choose the level of frankness you want to have with any relationship, but you should never turn your back on them. However, if after every attempt you think that there’s only toxicity and constant pain and suffering being offered by the other side, then of course you have no other option but to take extreme measures in such exceptional cases.
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Deliberately cutting off from your relatives is not good on ikhlaqi grounds but if the relatives are toxic, to my knowledge and understanding, keeping them at a distance is necessary for a happy and healthy life.
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Great thread. 💎
Sir my query is won’t our status in Jannah will get lowered if minimize ‘frankness’ in a relation. This concerns me so much. Like should we need to be all frank and then be good to even those who may hurt us consistently in order to achieve high ranks Hereafter?
As we know ranks in hereafter will be based on how good our akhlaq were, plese guide me on this.
And also please guide me then what is meant by ‘Hilm’ and ‘Sila rehmi’ ?
These two qualities are praised so much in hadiths that I want to acquire these. As I know ‘Hilm’ means to behave good even if he/she is hurting you. Is that the case? Same about sila rehmi.
Pls guide. Thanks in advance.
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