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Breaking Off Ties With Relatives
Aslam o alikum
Risthydar say qatha taluq is base per hu k wo mujay mali, jismani, ya kisi or tarha say nuqsan pohncha raha hai or may us say qatha taluq hu ja wo to kia ye teak hai?
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Breaking Off Ties With Relatives
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I am not a scholar. Based on my knowkedge try to reconciliate snd resolve the issues if possible. If that is not possible then instead of letting the matters get worse, it is better to avoid other party.
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In recent Q&A Session with Ghamidi Sahab on Questions selected from ASK GHAMIDI Platform:
For answer to your question, please refer to the video below from 1:29:30 to 1:31:54
https://youtu.be/-WPrZ1u7O_4?t=5370-
But if a person your own brother sexually harras your daughter when she is 13 or 14 how can we continue rasmi taluq with this kind of man dukh itna bara hai k dil nahi manta aur jurm bhi bht bara hai jis insan ko mehram rishty ki had bhi pta na ho mehramat ki pehchan na ho us say rasmi taluq bhi kese rakha jae???
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I cannot even imagine how horrifying experience it would have been. May Allah protect everyone.
Here Ghamidi sb has said that you should take necessary precautions. -
Even a “rasmi taaluq” can vary in intensity. It doesn’t mean that you call them up to say salam every so often. It could simply mean that if they call you to say salam or run into you on the street and say salam that you respond to them. I can understand that it can be very difficult, however once we decide to uphold God’s injunction over our own hurts, God makes it easy for us.
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And what about khushi ghami main shirkat ?? I think in this circumstances this thing also not applied?
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It is subjective and there are no general laws in this regard. Ghamidi sahab’s advice is generic that applies to most situations. The key thing is not to completely break off ties. How it materializes with different people and in different situations can vary.
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