I’ve listened to Ghamidi sahabs explanation as to why zina (fornication and adultery) are forbidden. He says it is because these acts prohibit the institute of family to be formed. However, in the west we see fornication as an understood norm and people date and go on to have marriages and family. Now even in the east people are following the same rule. They first have sexual relationships and then marry and start a family. So, how come they are able to keep the institute of family in place while indulging in zina?