Will Women Be Questioned By God For Not Stepping Out Of Abusive Marriages?
I have been dealing with a lot of stories from women around me, where the abuse and low morals of their spouse is so obvious to them, yet they decide to look the other way and not stop this abusive cycle.
There is nothing a woman can’t do in today’s age where technology has put the world and all kinds of knowledge at our fingertips.
Yet women just remain complacent, they don’t invest in learning new skills and never bother going out to earn their own money so they can walk out of these abusive marriages.
I am really curious to know – Will it be enough that women will simply present themselves on the Day of Judgement as the abused? Will not God ask that why didn’t she try to earn? Why didn’t she believe that He the Sole Provider and even if she left her husband, He would have provided? Why didn’t she use His gift of a brain and endless knowledge to better herself and make new paths so she could leave the abuse?
I understand there are situations where women can not absolutely leave but those are very rare in today’s world. So I am wondering, why don’t women do something about such marriages? For God has said that He doesn’t help anyone till they help themselves.
Then they even bring kids to this world, fully knowing what the husband is like. And from there, starts the vicious cycle of childhood abuse and trauma as well.
Won’t women be held responsible for letting this cycle continue? Just coz they wanted kids, even if it was with a man who was never worthy of becoming a husband or a father?!