Abusive Parents And The Hereafter
I understand that the Quran emphasizes on treating parents well and taking care of them, but there is a line at which parents go from parents to oppressors.
If one has parents that were/are extremely emotionally abusive to the point where the child now has serious mental illnesses such as BPD or PTSD, would it be wrong to separate yourself from them? The materialistic things would obviously be returned to them in due time but there is no possibility for a healthy relationship with them.
Also, in the hereafter, provided both the child and parent are made eligible for Jannah, would Allah (SWT) force them to be together even though the child would just like to be away from their oppressors? Would the child be allowed freedom to be alone and by themselves, far away from the people who abused them?
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