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  • Why Is Husband Not Required To Take First Wife's Permission For Second Marriage

    Posted by Areum Sattar on February 16, 2024 at 3:46 am

    AAik ssawal jo hmesha mjhy tang krta ha k mrdo ko 4 tk ki inazat di gyi ha mrd slaves rkh skty ha kyu k ye unki desires ki wja se har dfa mrdo ki khushi aur u ki desires ka khyal rkha jta ha jab k aurto k liye kuch b nahi ha (dont say women have low desires ) thats an excuse i want a literal answer it makes me feel like women are only made to please men and nothing else they are treated like toysss

    Or jb mrd ne 2sri shdi krni hoti to usy phli ki ijazat ki zrurt nahi prti sirf btana prta ha kya aurt ki koi hesiat nahi kya phli biwi trp nahi jaye giii kya aurto ki koi feelings nahi hoti apni desires ko control krny ak kaha ha aur sath dath mrdo ko 3 4 ki ijazat ha bghari phli se ijzat mngy mrd ka he khyal ha har situation me naky aurt ka k usy kesa mehsus hoga

    i just found it disturbing realllly disturbing plz answerrr to clear my thoughts

    Saad replied 10 months, 1 week ago 2 Members · 5 Replies
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  • Why Is Husband Not Required To Take First Wife's Permission For Second Marriage

    Saad updated 10 months, 1 week ago 2 Members · 5 Replies
  • Saad

    Contributor February 16, 2024 at 4:23 am

    Allah created only 1 Hawa (AS) for Adam (AS). That’s the natural family system. Polygamy happens if there is a problem:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTaBQCgU19o

  • Areum Sattar

    Member February 16, 2024 at 1:29 pm

    Ghamdii sahib said that k allah ne pabandi nahi lgai lkinallah ne shrab piny pe pbndi to lgai ha 2sri bat mrdo ko 2sri shdi krny ki zrurt kyu pedh ay gi

    • Saad

      Contributor February 16, 2024 at 1:44 pm

      In Qur’an, there were many widows after many Muslims died in the battlefield. Verse 4:3 is Allah asking Muslims to take a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife because the time needed it to support these widows and their children who lost their fathers.

      That is an example of need. Other need could also be the first wife has trouble producing children so another woman might be needed. Ghamidi Sahab also gave example of old time where people needed a lot of children to survive and form tribes, so multiple wives were needed. Prophet PBUH himself needed to marry women to establish relationship with tribes. These are some examples where polygamy is useful and needed.

  • Areum Sattar

    Member February 16, 2024 at 1:37 pm

    Mny ye ijzat ka pucha tha the answer is not according to my question !,:

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