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Differences Of Opinion Regarding Religion In A Family And When To Express Them
Is it neccessary for someone to express their opinion on religion to their family or friends?.
This question is actually related to me.Everyone around me has a different opinion on religion .So is it necessary for me to tell them what I believe?Sometimes I actually do , when I find it necessary but not everytime.
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Differences Of Opinion Regarding Religion In A Family And When To Express Them
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I have read all the discussions and also watched the videos of Ghamidi sahab.
I am stating the method which I have opted for to handle such situation. Just for my satisfaction, let me know if this is acceptable😅.
1)Majority of the people in my society follow deoband and barelvi school of thoughts. So most of the time I prefer to stay silent , or try to avoid such conversation where I have different opinion from others.
2)When I share any opinion on religion, there are few things I make sure of before sharing:-
a)Firstly, I should have sufficient knowledge about that particular topic before sharing my opinion in a conversation.
b)Secondly, the enviroment of coversation. Sometimes there are such enviroments where I find it easy to share .
C) State of mind of a person.
Allah also gave the ruling of adultery with time by considering the minds of the people in a society.I took the lesson from this that sudden change of mind is not possible. So I also Consider the state of mind of a person and act accordingly.
D) When everything (a,b,c) fullfills the requirement of my comfort, then I do share my opinion on religion ,but at the same time I leave the choice to them to decide whether to believe in them or not.
3)Lastly, I go along with them. I mean when I offer namaz in a mosque or somewhere with friends, family members or relatives, then when I offer nafil namaz after farz, they think that I am offering sunnah namaz. It is normal for them to think, but when Nafil comes according to them, at that time I already complete my Namaz. That’s why people ask me sometimes why I have skipped Nafil Namaz, at that time I just say that I will read it later, or I just stay silent and nod my head.
So yeah I think the method which I have opted is fine.
Also I think It’s not necessary for me to convince everyone or expressing my opinion all the time until and unless I find it neccessary to share . I can simply stay silent and follow what I believe and act accordingly
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There is nothing objectionable in your approach – its rather commendable.
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Thank you so much sir🙏🏻❤.
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