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Physical Relations Before Marriage
Is kissing, hugging allowed before marriage ( avoiding fornication and displaying of private parts) If someone is in a serious relationship .
Is it a sin ?.
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Physical Relations Before Marriage
updated 2 years, 6 months ago
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It iss not allowed on the principle of sadde zariya assool. see umer sb response here Discussion 46235 • Reply 46255
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Okay I have seen the discussion and came to conclusion that If relationship outside marriage contains fahashi like displaying private parts and fornication then it’s haram.
But i want to know that Is kissing,hugging is considered a sin if it’s not leading fornication cause if it’s a sin then allah will question on these things too but I’ve found that allah will only question if fornication take place. And even also if fornication take place but a person repented he/she will surely be forgiven.
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The actual command is not to go near fornication. Hence any act which may lead to that will be prohibited. Either hugging or kissing included. It will be considered a sin
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Brother Still I am in confusion.
Near of zina can be of defined in many different ways.
If kissing and hugging causes only in a form of love but not with the intention of zina then?
as you said these are sadde zariya then these things should be cosidered as discouraged/disliked but considering these act as “prohibition” is not suitable.
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@Irfan76 Can you please clarify?
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Sadd-e-zariya doesn’t mean disliked. Please see:
Discussion 58448 • Reply 58462
Kissing and hugging is not just a form of love; it’s underlying motivation is always sex.
We have been given a detailed law for norms of gender interaction, and we must act accordingly. For details, please see:
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Public laws are not made case to case. A person may not go high even if he drinks a full bottle, but law is for everyone that a small portion of it Haram. The same way going near fornication is Haram and we know it includes kissing and hugging even if they do not lead to the act.
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